Ok, it’s time… time to become a Selfish Woman.
Time to start thinking of Yourself first for a change. Time to stop putting Yourself on the back burner. Time to take control of Your future!
You know who you are…the newly divorced, mid life woman who has been serving everyone else in her world but herself. Your kids are either sprouting wings and flying the coop, or just about to. You have either been a stay home Mom, or juggling being a Mom and working for the almighty dollar.
And chances are you don’t even like your job anymore. It’s not what you always dreamed you would be doing. And it’s safe to say your Life didn’t turn out the way you imagined… well, never fear! I’m here to help!
Now… I’m thinking you’ve lost about 200 lbs. recently…in the form of a man, am I right? You are reevaluating your life, and wondering how you ever got here in the first place. Well, I’m with you, Sister!
But don’t worry, I’m here to teach you how to become a Selfish Woman. A Woman who chooses to be a happy, positive and dynamic force, because she is worth it! Not a sad, vengeful, and bitter person. We don’t need any more of those in the world.
I will help you become the vibrant, powerful and successful person you were meant to be. The real you that just got lost in that “old life” you are now breaking free from.
Think about it this way: Your divorce is the best thing that ever happened to You!
Really! Whatever the reason, the reality is that it happened. And for it to have happened, you were no longer being treated or respected the way you deserve. Period. It doesn’t matter if it was fair, right, wrong, whatever. The fact is that your relationship would have never gone back to the way it was in the “good days”. He will never change, and you can’t make him. It doesn’t work that way.
Now, to be clear, there are two types of women in this situation: the one who tried to keep the marriage together for whatever reason, i.e. kids, love, etc., and the one who caused the divorce in the first place. This blog is for the former. The latter can go on with her day. Bubye!
Now, back to what we are here for. This will be a journey for all of us. But this will be one of the best jouneys you’ve ever had. The outcome will be a more powerful, successful, vivacious You, who chooses to be happy, positive, and enjoy Life.
Happy Living!
Christia
The Most Selfish Woman In America!
Tags: Divorce, Divorced Women, Happy, Positive Life, Selfish Woman


So proud of you – great start, and I know it is just that…..a wonderful, loving and well thought out beginning. Can’t wait to read what’s next, and I know the rest of the women you’re talking to will greatly appreciate you! Love, Me
Hey, great post, very well written. You should blog more about this.
Pretty cool post. I just came across your blog and wanted to say
that I’ve really liked browsing your posts. Any way
I’ll be subscribing to your feed and I hope you write again soon!
Thanks for the input!
Happy Living!
Christia
Thanks for that! I will! Happy Living! Christia
Cool post, just subscribed.
Very well Put! Divorce can be a gift if we view it the right way. Divorce is not a failure, it’s a lesson.
Christia-
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